Focus energy only on what you control & ignore the rest.
Ask daily: What can I do right now that depends solely on me?
Build plans that succeed even if others do nothing.
Roll your own dice repeatedly without needing permission.
This shifts life from waste to real progress fast.
You waste massive energy when emotions target things outside your control.
Start asking one key question every single day: What can I do right now that depends only on me?
Build every plan assuming no one else will help - if it still works then it's solid.
Take solo actions like sending outreach emails - results come from your effort alone.
Avoid partnerships or dependencies that require others to act.
Go to the gym or work on goals regardless of anyone else's input.
When something triggers you emotionally check if you can act on it directly.
If not drop it immediately & redirect to controllable actions.
This focus turns your daily hours into high-impact moves that actually change your life.
Keep rolling your dice yourself - the more rolls the better your odds become.
Ask yourself 5x today:
What can I do right now that depends only on me?
Then actually do at least one of those things before the day ends.
How You Can Stop Emotional Hijacking
What can I do?